2008-07-28; 07:42:05 EDT
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Brad, Sorry to hear about your father in law. 78 is still very young these days. Why the 2 x 4 off the stern? Rummy In a message dated 7/28/2008 7:02:35 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time, flybrad at gmail.com writes: The phone rang around midnight last night (noon Beijing time) and my first thought was, "this can't be good". My older boys are finally well established in their responsible young adulthood period so my next thought was "parents". Fan's father got up from the breakfast table, said he didn't feel well and was going to lie down for a nap. He never woke up. Mr. Shen was an interesting man. He was born into a prosperous family that had their wealth confiscated after the civil war ended in 49'. He and his wife were both mechanical engineers and he was well respected as an engineer and manager of several different factories. During the Cultural Revolution, he was stripped of his job and title and the associated privileges, but later partially re-instated because even idealistic revolutionaries need people who "know how to make things work". Throat cancer at the age of four and the resulting surgery robbed him of the ability to speak louder than a whisper. When he spoke, people somehow knew it was worth the extra effort to listen carefully. While living with us, he quickly became Gracie's best friend. She couldn't wait for the first walk of the day and would quietly wait for him to practice his Tai Chee excercises. I was still a Rhodes 22 owner then and he and I built a cradle for the boat in the back yard. His English was on par with my Mandarin, non-existent, but with patience and pictures and lot's of hand gestures, we usually got our points across to each other. On a later visit I taught him how to drive (in a parking lot) and how to sail, flying was next on the agenda. He loved to share with his peers back home all the new skills he'd learned. Attached is a photo of Mr. Shen on his grand daughter's sailboat. He was 78 this year. Brad -------------- next part -------------- A non-text attachment was scrubbed... Name: mrshencorashen.JPG Type: image/jpeg Size: 1660847 bytes Desc: not available Url : http://www.rhodes22.org/pipermail/rhodes22-list/attachments/20080728/be265c5e/attachment.JPGSee the original archive post